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Berlin for adults: a weekend from Dublin

A kinky club in Mitte, a drag and cabaret stage in Kreuzberg, a large gay sauna open non-stop at weekends and an erotic apartment for couples: 4 addresses for a Berlin weekend from Dublin.

KinkyInsider · 5 November 2026 · 2 min read

BKA Theater

Direct flights link Dublin and Berlin in a little over two hours, which makes the German capital an easy long weekend. Berlin is known for its open, sex-positive nightlife. We picked 4 addresses: a kinky club, a drag and cabaret stage, a gay sauna and a private apartment for couples.

Nights out

KitKatClub

At 76 Köpenicker Straße in Mitte, KitKatClub describes itself as hedonistic, natural, colourful, lively, musical and kinky: a space to be free, and a community. Dress codes are part of the experience, so check the night's theme before you queue.

BKA Theater

At 34 Mehringdamm in Kreuzberg, right by Mehringdamm U-Bahn station (U6 and U7), BKA Theater, short for Berliner Kabarett Anstalt, is a cabaret, comedy and drag venue. A good way to start the evening before heading out.

Relax

Der Boiler

In the same building on Mehringdamm, Der Boiler is a large gay sauna. It opens Monday to Thursday from noon to 6 am, then non-stop from Friday noon to Monday 6 am. For men who want a slow Saturday afternoon.

Liebeshöhle Berlin

On Grunowstraße, in the east of the city, the Liebeshöhle is an erotic holiday apartment for couples who want time together undisturbed, with a wellness area and a sauna. Book it for one night of the trip, or for the whole weekend.

Liebeshöhle Berlin, Berlin
Liebeshöhle Berlin, Berlin Photo : Liebeshöhle Berlin

Where are they?

BKA Theater and Der Boiler share an address in Kreuzberg. KitKatClub is in Mitte, a few stops away. The Liebeshöhle is further east, so plan a taxi or the S-Bahn. Public transport runs through the night at weekends.

A weekend plan

  • Friday: arrive, dinner in Kreuzberg, a show at BKA Theater.
  • Saturday: the city by day, an afternoon at Der Boiler, a night at KitKatClub if the theme suits you.
  • For couples: a night at the Liebeshöhle.
  • Sunday: long brunch and the flight home.
Berlin - BVG A3E U-Bahn auf Oberbaumbrücke
Berlin - BVG A3E U-Bahn auf Oberbaumbrücke Photo : Oleksandr Dede (CC BY-SA 4.0) via Wikimedia Commons

Practical tips

  • Money: Germany uses the euro, like Ireland.
  • Cash: some clubs still prefer cash, so carry some.
  • Door policy: Berlin clubs can be selective; a calm attitude and the right outfit help.

First time at a kinky club?

Nobody expects anything from you. Start at the bar, look around, and go at your own pace. If you come as a couple, agree beforehand on what you want and on a signal to leave.

House rules everywhere

  • No means no, straight away.
  • No photos of other guests, and phones away in play areas.
  • A towel in shared areas at the sauna.
  • Respect the dress code.

Keep exploring

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